i decided to write this entry cos i came across a frd telling me abt her problems.(i shall not name her cos i think its no gd)
when she msned me all her problems, i sensed tt she was crying, i dunno if she was, but i sensed it.
well, i guessed she is tired lar.... why is BGR so complexed? whenever i heard abt pple's problems, i dun dare to go into one myself cos i wish i dun have all these problems... maybe i m just scared....scared tt i will be unhappie...
Ok, back to this frd of mine, i shall cut and paste her msn....
juz wana get used to beign not around him le
tired of always waiting at one end
i know he is changing
as in changing for the better
but then .. too slow lee.. like the changes r very slow
n i dun like to keep waiting
i will try to move on at my pace.. will try laa..
then if he cant catch up then too bad le.. tink we realli not meant to be coz i cant adapt to his current living style
i realli dun like being so far from him
(this is part of wat she feels....)
think she is quite sad...
well, frd, dun be sad, i feel that u shld do wat u want....decide on the path u wanna take and go on wif it, as i have said, the world is a happie place, why let urself be bothered wif all these craps?
i called it craps because they will onli make one sad...let nature takes its course, am i right?
u think abt it also no use, cos u will onli feel more irritated...u still have to study, ecas, JCRCs and a lot more things to do in life....
if he is meant to be urs, he will change his ways, of cos if he change for the better, i believe its onli fair for u to accomodate to him rt? i know u and him have already trash things out, but i believe its onli on the surface, did ur have a heart to heart tok?
i believe, for each couples, they have to be truthful to each other, if not the problems will just snowball...and it will become worst....
why wait for tt moment before regreting what u shld have done and u did not do it then?
u may have different views from me, but i believe, in myself lor, cos i been thru it, its sad, and takes a long time to recover, but nevertheless, one learns from his own mistakes....
take this chance to review ur relationship, maybe u will see wat u have not seen in the past.... and also u will get a clearer picture of the whole situation...am i rt?
i call this cooling down period....(remember, u are young, u have wat it takes, u can still choose....choose wat u want, choose ur own path in life and choose the place and the arms where u will be happy)....thats all i can say.....
HAHA, tok so much, maybe when i m in ur shoes, things will be differnt....uh huh.... well believe in urself....
HEre's one advice, if u dun tok abt it too much, dun think abt it too much, set ur mind to other things, maybe u wun feel so sad....
also remember, u have a da jie ard....always here for u....
yawns, i m so tired after a full supper...... exercising on my grey gym ball as i blog.....nice sia??
WAY TO GO, frd!!!!!!
